As someone with experience in the industry, I understand that safety is paramount. Effective client screening is one of the most essential steps you can take to protect yourself and ensure peace of mind. By implementing a thorough screening process, you can significantly reduce the risk of encountering unsafe or unreliable clients.
Below are proven strategies for vetting potential clients and making informed decisions before booking a session.
1. Request References from Other Providers
One of the most effective ways to assess a client’s reliability is by checking their references. If a client has seen other independent providers, reach out and ask about their experience.
When verifying references:
- Ask for at least two recent references from other escorts or service providers.
- Inquire about the client’s behavior, reliability, and overall demeanor.
- Confirm if they were respectful, punctual, and followed boundaries.
A client with positive references is more likely to be safe, while a lack of references or vague responses from other providers can be a red flag.
2. Verify Their Identity
Confirming a client’s identity adds another layer of security. You can do this by requesting a valid form of identification, such as a driver’s license or passport. This ensures that they are who they claim to be and helps deter those with bad intentions.
If a client is hesitant to provide identification, you may consider alternative verification methods, such as matching their name with an online presence like their LinkedIn or business credentials, if applicable.
3. Utilize Background Check Services
For an extra level of security, you can use industry-specific verification services that provide insight into a client’s history. Popular platforms include:
- VerifyHim
- SafeOffice
- P411
These services compile information from other providers, blacklist reports, and client verification databases, helping you make an informed decision.
4. Verify Phone Number & Email for Accuracy
A legitimate client should be traceable through their contact details. Confirm their phone number and email address to ensure they are not using fake or disposable accounts to conceal their identity.
Simple ways to verify include:
- Google their phone number or email to see if any concerning reports surface.
- Use a reverse phone lookup to determine if their contact information is linked to their real identity.
- Ask them to email you from an official domain (if applicable).
If a client provides inconsistent or unverifiable contact details, consider it a warning sign.
5. Ask Questions & Gather More Information
Do not hesitate to ask the client for details about their request. Understanding their expectations, preferences, and boundaries ensures that you are both on the same page.
Key things to inquire about:
- What type of session are they looking for?
- Have they seen other providers before?
- Do they have any specific requests or requirements?
A legitimate client will have no problem answering these questions. If they seem evasive, dismissive, or pushy, proceed with caution.
6. Verify Business Credentials (For High-Profile Clients)
If a client claims to be a business professional, confirm their credentials. This can be done by:
- Checking company websites, directories, or LinkedIn.
- Using Dun & Bradstreet to verify their business registration.
- Calling their publicly listed business number to confirm legitimacy.
While many high-profile clients prefer discretion, basic verification is a reasonable expectation for safety.
Closing Thoughts
Client screening is an essential step in maintaining both safety and professionalism in this industry, and thankfully, more providers are prioritizing it. By taking proactive measures—checking references, verifying identities, using screening services, and trusting your instincts—you can create a safer work environment and focus on building regulars.
Your safety is non-negotiable, and you have the right to set boundaries, ask questions, and walk away from any situation that does not feel right. Stay vigilant, stay informed, and never skip the screening process.